The poem strongly critiques the institution of marriage as something imposed rather than freely chosen. It portrays marriage as a restrictive, court-like process filled with societal pressures, compulsory rituals (sindoor as a mere “signature,” family expectations, temple mandaps, and state involvement), and loss of personal freedom. The speaker expresses deep frustration with these bindings that overshadow individual desires and autonomy. Beneath the auspicious surface lies resentment toward forced traditions that limit happiness. The core message is a call for independence and self-determination in love and life, rejecting the idea that marriage must define or confine one’s identity.

Suprim Giri performs a painful poem asking how long one must live while dying inside. It talks about repeated inner deaths, silent suffering, and struggling to survive emotionally. The words express deep sorrow, tiredness, and quiet despair from ongoing pain. Emotions are raw and heavy, yet shared to show others feel it too. It brings comfort in knowing suffering is common. A strong Nepali poem about enduring emotional pain.